Category: Writings

It was written in blue on the back of an envelope in large childish letters, To Phoebe. I saw the empty envelope lying on the pavement of Llanbadarn Road as I walked this morning. I also noticed a piece of paper pinned to a tree at the top of St David’s Road, I stopped to read it. Have you seen our cat? it read, next to a picture of a big, fluffy moggy. The house where the doctor who died used to live was lit up as I walked by. I could see his daughter in the dining room bending down over her baby possibly, her hair falling forward.

The two of us watched as one of the various cats that live around us here stealthily made its way across the wilderness between us and the National Library on the hill. She, we called it a she not knowing for certain, moved gingerly, her white fur stark against the mess of green and brown.

A line of gold balloons formed into letters read Happy Birthday on a living room wall of a student house that I passed on my way into town. The lights were on but the room was empty.

The shops of the town are getting ready for opening next week. Window displays are half-done, boxes lie around half-unpacked. There is a spirit of optimism. See you soon, one sign reads. May it last.

He said it lifted him working with me yesterday. Was that the phrase he used? It was something like it. He said it improved his walk. We don’t always work well together, he says it’s because we are so similar. I try to fight my corner too much – being too protective of my writing. He teaches me a lot though as we fight over commas. It is good. It is all good, as my sister would and does say.

They talked about gardens yesterday on the radio. All above my head but hearing Penelope Keith’s voice was nice. Some actors voices do that for me. I feel safe, coddled by them. I could list them. I won’t now, another time. There is work to do. Much. I try to be more forgiving. And it is another culture. I have so much to learn.

It took me a few seconds to work out what it meant, or at least how to say it. 6 EE makes more sense if the number six is pronounced in Norwegian as seks. 6 EE or seks-ee or sexy. It took him as a long as me at breakfast. He’s seen the car with that number plate too, just outside where we used to live. I looked up at the flats and tried to remember which was our window. It was a container of good memories but also some hard ones, as all homes are, I suppose.

The magnolia tree on St David’s Road is coming on apace. We both love them. The blossoms are great gaudy things but so beautiful. It is a sign of spring.

They are doing a week of programmes on Radio 4 Extra that herald spring. I caught the tail end of one hosted by Richard Maybe yesterday. I love to listen to him and he had some elegant recordings from various naturalists and poets including a piece by Ted Hughes. He didn’t fuss with language, his use of it was spare, appropriate and yet astonishing. Maybe also ended with a short piece of prose by Orwell. I must find it. The words, so lovely and apposite will not be contained by my mind that is too eager to grasp at so many things it is forever overflowing. Maybe’s programme was followed by a short story called Snowdrops. I’d heard it before but was beguiled again.

They always take me by surprise, standing as they do in that little doorway along Chalybeate Street. They stand on a little step and are tucked away in the doorway so I don’t see them at first. And in the dark, especially it is very disconcerting to come upon them. He’s seen them too. They smoke there.

There was Missing Cat notice lying on the ground near where the Eddie Stobart lorries turn into the back of Tesco’s, where the loading bays are. It was curved as if it had been attached to a lamppost or tree. Does anyone ever get their cat back that way? I suppose it stops them feeling completely helpless. I wonder if that family in Nantwich had their two black Labradors returned.

The snow did come.

I wake from dreams knowing that she’s been there, if not in the foreground in the distance, watching. She is a shadow, a presence. Perhaps it will always be so. She’s my unfinished business, my regret, as she is too. My injured ones.

The open window in my bedroom had made it cold but when I opened the door and walked out into the landing the flat was warm. A remembered warmth from the day when the sun had shone and shone. A smell of his toast from the night before had also been remembered in the kitchen upstairs. I like that. I feel held by such physical rememberings.

The day looks to be set fair. I can see the sun on the buildings just before the Prom already. Much to do. But yesterday was a gift, perhaps today will be too.

The main street of our town has been gutted. Shop after shop is empty and either To Let or For Sale. It’s a sad thing. A few betting shops remain, as do a couple of haberdasheries, and there are some coffee shops and cafes that continue to trade but the rest have gone. And taking the bustle with them. The business quango Advancing Aberystwyth that used to drive him to distraction (even prompting him to write a letter to the local paper), with their ice rink, huge deckchairs on the Prom, closing of roads to make walk streets, the paddling pool made into a sandpit and the proposed trip wire have been sacked. No one, including him, wanted them. They didn’t advance the town, merely irritated people. We need a bigger vision. Anyone? It all looks so shabby, unloved and deserted. Even his friend’s upstairs café The Carlton (the ex-chef of Corners, a restaurant that used to be on the corner of Chalybeate Street, that he’d go to with his mum, where infamous family sayings were born and much repeated, such as ‘she’s the trout’) has lost some of its letters and is now, He Carlo. And she who is so fastidious and forever popping out from the kitchen to clean the windows of children’s finger smears. It makes me sad. Or perhaps it is just Easter with all those memories of the violent retellings of what was done to him. He was crucified an hour ago, he said to me yesterday. Poor love. Poor love.

I want to be like a tree, straight and solid. Not thick like an oak but slender and flexible, a birch, not a willow that’s too bendy and who wants to be continually weeping, no a birch, a silver one. I want to know my strength and not wobble like I did again yesterday. I can do it. I want to know this and take strength from it.

I woke from a dream in which I was lighting a candle. It had come through the post as a present for someone else. It was a large one with several wicks (just like my mother used to have) in a glass container. As I woke to the alarm the sentence ‘what were you thinking of, galosh?’ came into my head.

Give me the grace to work well today without complaint, to allow the words to come, and to be kind. Always to be kind.

She was such a love. The warmth was there from the start. I felt cleansed by it, liked and responded to. We all need that. My mind makes me black inside sometimes, fetid and stinking rotten. It isn’t the truth, but then what is? And I did it. I took hold of it (with his help, bless him) and did it, faced it, ugly though it felt, at least initially. I feel cleaned by it. And ready to work again. To begin again. Thank you.

Yesterday was hard. It threw me. I wasn’t expecting it. I was like a beetle thrown onto its back, upended and unable to right itself. He tried to help. He was tireless in his bolstering. What a love. I woke with it but it’s easing. I begin with forgiving the trespasser. She knows not what she does. If I understand her I can move forward and continue working. Which, after all, is all that matters. And there are plenty who respect and care for me. Those who know me. And I just have to keep doing. That’s all.

A man sat beside a lit bonfire on North Beach, his form a shadow against the flames. Two lads walked over, one came on a bike and both jumped down onto the pebbles to join him. The smoke in the air made it smell like autumn.

I walked through the Castle Park and past The Angel. There was a light on in the shop on the corner that used to be a barbers that he and his cronies used to go to. The barber was Turkish. He’s gone back home. The new shop is called The Snake Room. It’s hard to say what its goods are to be. There are a few printed T-shirts in the window and it looks a bit grungy. Two men sat at a table inside. They were mountainous men with bald heads. On the table were a mass of bottles and glasses. Had they been partying? And in the full view of the town? The men looked sleepy, groggy though they were still upright.

A streak of white, a cat presumably, ran across my path as I walked up the hill towards home. And a sudden gust of very warm air hit me. It was strange. Was it the rush of all the flats on the estate having their heating coming on at once? Who knows?

Tea now and coffee for him and then work. As I always say, onward.

I’ve always been that way. I soak up things, other peoples’ stories mostly. I carry them for them, particularly when I’m writing about them, they stay with me for days. All those sorrows, some joy too. Do I change the tone of their narratives, do I alter them with my own particular way of seeing? She seemed sad, it wasn’t what I expected of her. Does she want me to write of her sadness? I suspect not. Breathe. You have time. Let the tale unfold. See the beauty. It is there.